Theodore and Parker before a “backyard camping adventure” birthday party. They don’t look 23 months apart do they? Such cute little stinkers….
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Who needs an Olympic size pool?
Our last day of April was filled to the brim! Monday morning housework, a visit from our friends, schoolwork, playing in the water, taking dinner to our other friends, cleaning out more at Mimi’s house, a late night front porch picnic for dinner, washing feet in the tub and jumping into bed!
Goodbye April! Hello May!
this and that
What a mess Parker makes EVERY time he eats!
Foster’s baby brother getting a little help.
My baby brother with his new toy.
Theodore’s showing his karate stance.
Using everything not nailed down to create a fort.
Katie after her first softball game.
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The week may have been tough, there may have been more bumps than smiles, but in the end these are the moments that keep us going, the ones we need to remember.
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We huntin’ us some bears…
One of my favorite memories from the week…
On our nature hike, Parker, Theodore and Theodore’s best friend picked up some sticks to pretend they were hunting bears in the woods. This was awesome to see because of the chain of events.
First, Foster said “Mommy take a picture of me – I’m Davy Crockett!”
Then Theodore and his friend had to find their own “guns”.
Then Parker joined the hunting expedition.
Nature Study–Part 2
We took a trip to the Great Smoky Mountains National Park today! It was a wonderful experience. Even though Parker and Jonah are still so young, it was worth the work to go on this field trip. We picked up some Junior Ranger workbooks that will help us focus on certain aspects and areas of the park. We are blessed to be this close to one of the most beautiful places in America.
3 beautiful things
1. naked baby fat rolls…yummy
2. adorable new haircut and super big-toothed smile
3. little mind and fingers learning so quickly
I stole the 3 beautiful things idea from here. I was inspired to find 3 beautiful things in my world. What’s beautiful in yours?
Theodore’s ready…
Theodore had his “ready for Kindergarten” appointment with the doctor today. He checked out great. I love that our doctor didn’t say a word about his speech. He got his shots. Then, he got a milkshake and corndog and time in the sunshine with Mommy. 
Wordless Wednesday: California
Foster, Katie and Theodore on our family trip to California – June 2011
Looks can be deceiving…
Parents would never say that they have a favorite child. We love them all the same right? Well, I do love all my children. I would throw myself in front of a moving bus for any of them. However, I find that as they grow and have their own personalities and temperaments emerge that some of them are easier to “deal” with than others. I am just being brutally honest here.
I was am not a very patient person when it comes to certain behaviors. When I worked at Blount County Children’s Home years ago there was this girl, we will call her N, she needed A LOT of attention. She was a younger teen, so she was on my “wing.” She would follow me around from the time my 10 hour shift started until room time. She asked me no less than 20 questions an hour. I was about to pull my hair out. They weren’t necessary questions, she could have easily figured out the answers for herself or by asking one of her peers. I finally made up an index card that she had to have signed off each time she asked staff a question. I think she was allowed about 10 questions a shift. Bless her heart. I know that this was just a form of anxiety and that she wasn’t purposely trying to drive us all crazy but we had to try and teach her. This particular behavior was isolating her from her peers and my hope was that she would be able to get this “under control.”
It didn’t work. And all the things that I have tried with my sweet Theodore haven’t worked so far either. All my kids so far have entered into a stubborn, willful stage at about 2 and it ends usually by 4. I don’t know why they call it the “terrible twos” like this craziness is contained to just one year. Theodore is so precious to us. He has a wonderful sense of humor, he loves to cuddle and still wants daddy to carry him to bed. He wants to be bigger and tries to keep up with Foster and Katie and any older child that is around. He is really smart.
If you look at the picture above, or spend time with him, you would think “Oh this guy is the cutest, sweetest thing” and he is, but looks can be deceiving. My biggest struggle with him right now is that he will not accept what Chris, myself or his siblings say about anything. An example is if he asks to do something and I say “No, we will do that in a little while.” Or “not right now.” Or “after I feed the baby.” Or “after we put out this house fire.” You get the picture. It doesn’t matter what is going on in the world around him, he gets it in his head and it must be accomplished. Granted he has now moved from throwing screaming fits to just asking over and over and over again, but that’s just as disobedient. It’s just as disrespectful to me or to his siblings who have told him no or wait.
As you can imagine, because he has to wait or is told no he walks around like Eeyore most of the time. Grumping and complaining. How do I get him to –
A) Be obedient and accept no for an answer
B) Appreciate all the great things he has in front of him (from food to toys)
C) Care about what’s going on with others – not just focus on himself all the time?
Oh. Ouch. I have been praying about this and God just let me know that is exactly how I tend to act. I guess I will try harder to treat him how God treats me. With patience.
But God had mercy on me so that Christ Jesus could use me as a prime example of his great patience with even the worst sinners. Then others will realize that they, too, can believe in him and receive eternal life.
1 Timothy 1:16
"That’s a tomato."
I think 4 year old boys are pretty special. They aren’t toddlers anymore but they aren’t quite big kids. Theodore is almost 4 and 1/2 now and he changes so much every day. His behavior has improved drastically. He’s not having to get as many consequences and he is starting to ask for what he calls “hard school work.” He can identify his numbers and count to ten. He knows over half the alphabet and is starting to try and trace/draw letters and shapes. The changes have been pretty dramatic in the past 4 months.
Tonight at dinner we were having taco soup. The conversation went like this…
Theodore (as he picked up one ingredient on his spoon) “What is this?”
Me “That’s a bean.”
Theodore “Oh, I like beans.”
Me “Good. I’m glad you do.”
Theodore “What’s this?”
Me “That’s a tomato.”
Theodore (after a slight pause) “A tornado? Like the thing that picks up your house and swirls it around?”
Me “No, a tomato.”
Katie “Is a tomato a vegetable or a fruit?”
Daddy “Well that’s up for debate.”
Good grief. You can get really tired around here just from one meal. I actually told my kids that they had to eat breakfast this morning without asking me any questions. It was so peaceful.
All the Little Grubbs 