Give me an A

Our first 2 weeks of school have gone really well!  The only struggle has been having enough “school” work for Theodore.  He wants to stay at the table and do his work while Katie and Foster do their seat work. Friday I was able to spend 4 or 5 hours getting all of my hands-on learning materials together and organized.  I had planned on doing that while my mom was here to help with the kids during summer break but I got strep-throat instead and ended up spending my organizing time trying to recover. We did get out to a back-to-school swim party at Springbrook pool with American Heritage Girls!
Katie is happy that she gets to join American Heritage Girls this year. One of her closest friends got to join last year and she can’t wait to be a part of the action!
Foster has started a spelling curriculum this year. We are using Building Spelling Skills by
Christian Liberty Press.  He is doing really well. He does lessons 4 days and then on the 5th day takes a test over 20 words.  The first unit had a practice test and here’s how he did after only being on lesson 3.
I only gave him 10 words for the practice test and he wanted to check it himself.  He said “I’ll circle the ones I got right and put an x over the ones I missed.”  He only missed the word “taffy” which he spelled “tafee” which pleased me because it was at least phonetically accurate.  By Friday when he took his real test, he got them all correct. I wrote 100% and put a sticker on his paper.  He was pleased but then he said, “You should have put an A.”  I think it’s pretty funny that he wants an “A” even though he’s never been in any setting where you get grades. He received an “A” on his unit 2 test.
We have started a formal science curriculum this year and we are using Apologia’s Young Explorers series Exploring Creation with Astronomy and the kids are loving it so far.  We attempted our first project to make a solar system out of balloons and hang but there are no pictures because it failed pretty miserably! We didn’t have the correct size balloons and then they started to shrink after being up by the hot ceiling. Thankfully, Daddy came to the rescue and recommended making one out of Styrofoam balls and we found a solar system kit at Hobby Lobby for only $10! Chris has shorter days the next two weeks so he will be helping them put it together and paint it one evening this week.  My children are so blessed to have a hands-on, involved daddy. We also found a puzzle and flash cards in the dollar bins at Target! The whole idea behind Apologia’s science series is immersion in one topic so that your children get the most out of one topic. This is different from what most textbooks do in that they usually skip around and cover small sections of several topics.  We also went to the library this week and found several books on Astronomy.
Our Bible and Character Traits from the past two weeks have been Appreciative and Attentive.  They have the option of memorizing the scripture and definition each week or they can get together and put on a “show” that demonstrates the meaning of their Character Trait for the week.
Week One: Katie was driving a car and said “POP! Oh no my tire is flat!” and Foster drove up beside her and said “Ma’am can I fix your tire for you?” After he fixed her tire she said “Thank you, sir, I appreciate you fixing my tire.”
Week Two: Katie was in a hospital bed and Foster was giving her directions on how to take care of herself when she went home. “OK ma’am please take 2 Benadryl –  3 times a day. And remember not to get down on your leg or you’ll have to come back to the hospital.” Katie replied “Ok, doctor, thank you.”
They get an “A” on their performances, too!

First Day of School

I can’t believe Foster is starting 1st grade and Katie is in Kindergarten! The time has flown by and we are so excited about our new school year.  We had a successful first day. I always plan and organize and stress.  What is there to stress about you ask?  Well, if you homeschool you know there are many different things to stress about, like what curriculum you will use. How will you have your day planned out so that you can actually accomplish using said curriculum? How will you be sure that your kids are still getting to be kids and not little school robots? What about keeping up with the toddler and pre-schooler? What about keeping up with housework? Your quiet time? Your friends? Your blog? LOL  Well, you know what? I have recently picked up a new mantra of sorts that is really working for me. Perhaps you may want to give it a try, since most of the population seems pretty stressed out.  Here it is…”Let it go.” I know. That was life-changing wasn’t it? Well, for me it has been. Because when I say “let it go” I am really saying “let go and let God.”  He’s in control anyway. Why all the stress to try and keep control of it all?  Just let God handle it. He’s way more qualified than you anyway.

Here are a few pics of how we spent our first day of school. Our character trait/Bible lesson this week is “Appreciative” the scripture is 1 Thessalonians 5:18 “In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”  I have given them the option of memorizing the scripture by the end of the week or they can create and put on a skit that shows the character trait in action.  They said they would “put on a show.”

We begin the day with all of our daily responsibilities and then move to Bible and then some seat work like Math, Handwriting and Spelling.  We started reading our science today and they are so excited because we will be studying Astronomy this year.

We started school at 9am and were finished by 1pm. That was including snack, outside playtime and lunch.  Homeschooling is wonderful!

Parker’s First Birthday

My baby boy turned one on July 13th. He’s a sweetie! Always ready with a smile and a cuddle, I am so blessed to have a healthy, thriving toddler to chase after.  I love the fact that he sleeps through the night and is a relatively low-maintenance little guy.  Well, as low-maintenance as a one year old can be, he’s not walking yet but is pulling up and will stand alone for a few seconds without holding onto anything so he’ll probably take off soon. He loves his big brothers and sister and they are always trying to make him laugh or help him when he’s crying.

Isn’t he a handsome little guy? And, of course, we had a party and some cake. We are low-key about birthdays around here. We like to celebrate but it doesn’t have to be the kind of party that breaks the bank. The most important thing is FAMILY.

Cake and presents are nice too!

Days of summer…

We love summer around here. It’s warm and bright and filled with exploring and freedom. God has been so good to create all we enjoy.

I am so blessed to be the mother of these children. I thank God for them, for His trusting me with their hearts and minds and souls.  We are treasuring each day this summer…you should too…(=

Sanity & Self-Preservation

I had a birthday this month. It was April 6th and I turned 34. Every year right around my birthday my husband will ask me “so do you feel older?” and usually my bright and cheery answer is “NOPE!” This year, however, I did/do feel older and I am convinced it has been mostly because of all of the major events that have taken place over the last year. Last April, my mother-in-law passed away unexpectedly at age 58. My 4th child was born in July and I was very sick for almost a month in the fall. Then in January my husband spent 3 1/2 weeks in the hospital, he was out of work for 6 weeks total. And the weather, oh the terrible, awful long winter. I wish I could be more accepting of the cold, dreary weather but I really think I have a negative physiological reaction to it. In March, as spring came in and the warmth and sun started to soak into my bones I could see the light at the end of this past year’s tunnel. But I have been struggling for awhile and don’t expect everything to just be rosy immediately. Spiritually I am parched, relationally I am challenged. I am trying to take care of myself in ways that I have long neglected. Time for myself, by myself. Time with God in His word. Eating healthier and exercising. I think when I became a wife and mother I just accepted that I would have to sacrifice all there was to “me” and it’s been a long 8 years of making allowances and accepting things that have ultimately led to being unable to be an excellent wife and mother, as well as a friend, daughter and sister. I am making small changes and I am thankful that God is allowing me the time here to learn how to serve Him and serve my family and to (at the same time) relearn what it means to just be me.

Back in the saddle again

I haven’t been blogging. In fact, this will be the first of this new year. Our house has been a little hectic. To make a long story short, my husband spent the first 26 days of the year in the hospital. Then my sweet firstborn turned 6 on Valentine’s Day.

We spent February and March running to Upward Basketball and Cheerleading for Foster and Katie. They had a really great time but EVERY game was at 8am on Saturday, that’s just not right. With Theodore and Parker and the cold weather it wasn’t very fun getting there but watching them play and cheer was well worth it.
Katie was intimidated at first but warmed up by the end of the season. She finally started using her REAL voice by the last couple of games!

Theodore is still a wild man but is much better behaved than he was just 6 monthes ago. His vocabulary is still very limited but he understands complex directions and can use signs and other means of communication to get us to understand what he wants or needs.

Parker is 8 1/2 monthes old now. He’s still a sweet, happy little baby. He’s almost sitting up unassisted. He would roll all over the house if we let him. I don’t know if he’ll crawl or just roll his way around until he starts walking.
And then on March 22nd, Chris and I celebrated our 8th anniversary. Well, we actually are going to celebrate this weekend with a short, no kids allowed trip. (Thanks to Grammy and Grandad for the free babysitting!)
So hopefully, now that I am up to date I will keep posting regularly. Although, much of my hindrance is time, honestly a lot of it is frustration at not knowing how to upload pics and put in links and all that cool stuff that Sarah and my other friends can do on their blogs. But I am doing my best to learn…that’s what I always ask my kids to do – “just do the best you can”. I wish I could be that easy on myself in all areas of life.
And for all the stressing out that I do about how to be a better wife, mother, homeschool teacher, etc. I really just need to be focused on how to “Grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” 2 Peter 3:18 If I did that, when I do that, God gets all the pieces in the right place for me.
I hope all my blog friends and family are doing well. And if anyone can tell me how to get my picture to upload that would be great… (=

Lies

That is an ugly word isn’t it? But it’s a genuine word and it, in my opinion, should not be sugar-coated or avoided. With children we call it a “fib” or “making it up” but really it’s just a lie. It’s deceit plain and simple. James said in James 1:26 “If anyone among you thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his tongue but DECEIVES his own heart, this one’s religion is useless.” And my translation of that verse would be “if you think you have a relationship with God but can’t stop hurting others with your words then you and God aren’t as tight as you think”.
I have always told my children “you are telling a lie” when they are not telling the truth. The world lulls us into complacency on this issue as much as any other. A good example of this is a book I was reading to my 2 year old the other day. The name of the book is Thomas Breaks a Promise, and I noticed in tiny print at the bottom it says “previously published as Thomas Tells a Lie”. I’m not sure when the original Thomas books were written, I know it was years ago. And sometime in the recent past someone made the decision that using the phrase “tells a lie” was too harsh for a children’s book. But he does tell a lie. He causes someone else pain and trouble because he doesn’t follow directions and do what he says he will do. I want my children to know that a lie is serious business. And asking forgiveness when you tell a lie is just as important.

Winter means snow and deer hunting…

 

First snow of the season! The kids were very excited. But I realized we were a little short on the right gear. So Foster had on 2 thin jackets and Katie’s wearing my gloves and Theodore had on a hat that was too small before he protested and just wore his hood. Winter just snuck up on me I guess. But, that’s ok, either way you go out, you get wet and cold and you have a blast. Then you come in and strip down and get all warmed up again. At which point children forget how wet and cold they just were and want to go through the process all over again!
Katie and Theodore checking out one of daddy’s deer. Katie loves wearing her “camo” and says that when she turns 5 she’ll get to go hunting with daddy, too. We’ll see how she does with that…I know I for one couldn’t be a good hunter because of the weather, getting up so early, packing all that stuff, having to pee in the woods, and the list goes on. But if she wants to be a hunter with her daddy, then great for her. My husband’s cousin just married a great girl this past summer who loves to hunt. So there are some of them out there, I’m just not one of them!
My husband, though, is a passionate hunter. I am sure that’s why Foster and even Katie are so enthralled with hunting. I think it’s great for children to see their parents have a love for a hobby or past time. It role models for them the commitment, sacrifice, planning and creativity that someone can harness if they are truly interested in something.
It shows them that if you enjoy the fun of something in life, you must also put in the effort to make that happen.

Poetry

I did not get exposed to poetry very much growing up but have always loved it and desire for my children to get that exposure and hopefully fall in love with it too.

SMART
My dad gave me one dollar bill
‘Cause I’m his smartest son,
And I swapped it for two shiny quarters
‘Cause two is more than one!
And then I took the quarters
And traded them to Lou
For three dimes – I guess he don’t know
That three is more than two!
Just then, along came old blind Bates
And just ’cause he can’t see
He gave me four nickels for my three dimes,
And four is more than three!
And I took the nickels to Hiram Coombs
Down at the seed-feed store,
And the fool gave me five pennies for them,
And five is more than four!
And then I went and showed my dad,
And he got red in the cheeks
And closed his eyes and shook his head —
Too proud of me to speak!
by: Shel Silverstein

Thankful

I’m thankful for so many things but my list will start with 5 since it’s the 5th day of November.
1) My salvation
2) His forgiveness
3) His unconditional love
4) His security
5) His acceptance

I heard a testimony last Sunday night that is still resonating in my soul. The way the Lord spared me from the life I was headed for astonishes me. I am seeing more and more how His hand was working in my life long before I was living for Him.