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Pinewood Derby 2012

Last night we attended our 2nd Pinewood Derby with Foster’s Cub Scout pack.  He didn’t win but he enjoyed it.  Chris helped him build his car.  Our pack leader tried to emphasize how important it was to let the boys actually build the cars and for the dads to take a step back and not do it all for them.  I think Chris did great letting Foster decide on his design, sand, paint, and put it all together.  I’m not sure why it’s so hard to let our kids just do something like that.  I guess it just depends on the personality type. I have had to really work on learning to let go when I do anything creative with the kids. It’s OK if it doesn’t turn out the way I think it should, just that they are enjoying the process of being creative!
The race took place at the Blount County Fire Department.  They showed a fire safety video and then started the racing. Foster’s car came in 4th once, 3rd twice and 2nd once.  He was disappointed but playing with friends and eating junk food distracted him from being to upset about it.
I was thinking 2 things last night. The first one is “it won’t be like this next year” (more on that later).
The second is that we have 4 sons. That’s potentially A LOT of pinewood derby cars to build and race.

8 pointer

Papaw and Daddy surprised Foster tonight by taking him to pick up his deer head. It turned out to be a beautiful mount. Now…the only problem is where to put it…
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A little break…

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After the past 3 weeks of Chris working overtime, a stomach virus that wiped us all out and then me hurting my back somehow…we hit the road for a little break at Grammy and Grandad’s house.
Foster finally got his birthday dinner at Chili’s! He enjoyed his meal AND his huge dessert. He couldn’t finish the whole thing but he gave it a good try. Smile

Doing laundry…

Foster showing me how he gets the wet, clean laundry out of the washer and into the dryer.
“And this mess is so big
And so deep and so tall,
We cannot pick it up.
There is no way at all!”
― Dr. Seuss

Firsts

First time on a motorcycle…
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First time in the Johnny Jumper…
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Sick

Well, our birthday week celebration has been interrupted by a mean, old stomach bug.  Everyone has it except Chris and Jonah at this point.  Foster said before he vomited last night, “Well maybe there was going to be a car wreck on the way or something.” He was saying that maybe God was letting this happen to protect him from something worse. 

And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God,
to those who are the called according to His purpose.                                                                              Romans 8:28

8

Today’s the big day! Foster’s 8 years old.  I can’t believe it’s been 8 years since I first laid eyes on my son.  I have gushed and talked about him for days now so I will just tell a little on how we are celebrating this week. (Yes, I said week. We love birthdays around here.)
Monday night   Foster’s Papaw and Ms. Debbie took him out to eat at Mr.Gatti’s and to Gander Mountain.  It was a big treat mostly because he got to go all by himself.  He came home with some fishing stuff and a video about how to catch Crappie (pronounced craw-pee, not crap-pee).
Tuesday  Lots of phone calls, no schoolwork, doughnuts for breakfast, Chick-fil-A with friends for lunch, lots of screen time, dinner he planned with our family, skype with Grammy and Grandad.
Thursday  Playdate with new friends.
Friday  Grammy’s coming! Family dinner at Chili’s and then cake and ice cream at home with extended family.
Saturday  Movie with Grandad.
And some nice memories from today…
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Flat Daddy

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This was at Foster’s 3rd birthday party.  Chris had been deployed to Iraq for about a month.  The Family Readiness Group at the airbase made us a “flat daddy” to have for the 6 months he was gone.  I know some people thought we were crazy carrying this huge thing around, but it was really great for Foster and Katie.  We would prop him up in the living room and I would catch Foster talking to flat daddy while he played with his cars or built Lego towers. 
The best thing about tomorrow, Valentine’s Day 2012, is that our whole family will be together to celebrate Foster’s birthday.
When I asked him what he wanted for his birthday dinner he said he wanted “stringy noodles” (angel hair pasta with parmesan cheese), popcorn chicken and French bread for the “siding”. Chris and I had to explain the difference between a “side dish” and “siding”. Smile

Dinner for one…

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Foster and Katie are just 20 months apart and we lived in a massive 960 sq. foot 2 bedroom house when she was born. We moved Foster to a “big boy bed” when he was about 18 months old so that Katie could have the crib.  He never got out of bed at night but we did have to teach him to stay in it for his daytime naps.
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This picture actually makes me a little sad.  He looks lonely doesn’t he? Chris was working 2nd shift and we rarely ate dinner as a family.  I would fix something for Foster and then after I got him in bed would eat alone while I read or watched t.v.  The summer after Foster turned 2 years old Chris started an apprenticeship program and moved to a 1st shift job. Thankfully, he has worked 1st shift ever since and having dinner as a family is something we do most nights.  While dinner time can sometimes get hectic, messy and loud, I am thankful that my children have each other and mommy and daddy with which to share a meal.
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At his Uncle Chad’s birthday party in 2006.  Grammy made that great leather cowboy vest for him.  He has always loved dressing up.
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This is the summer after Foster turned 3 years old. Katie was newly walking, I was pregnant with Theodore and Chris was deployed to Iraq.  We were home a lot that summer but one of Foster’s favorite things was eating those big cake like cookies on the front porch.  He has always been a messy eater, even now we have to remind him to slow down if he’s eating something he enjoys.
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Foster and I went to see Thomas the train in Chattanooga that summer that Chris was deployed.  Grammy took care of Katie and we had a wonderful day together.  We were cooling off under one of the tents they had set up and this lady asked if any of the kids could come up and sing the alphabet song.  Foster was 3 and half and very shy around adults and crowds.  I was shocked when he volunteered and so proud when he sang the whole thing! That was one of my first homeschooling success stories! Smile

Joyful

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This is one of my favorite pictures. Foster is 14 months old here.  I was about 3 months pregnant with Katie. Foster had just begun walking and one of his favorite things to do that Spring was walk to the mailbox with me.  It was amazing as a new parent to watch his fascination with the wind blowing through that big tree in the front yard. 
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My sister-in-law and I had our kids professionally photographed the summer that Foster was 2 and 1/2. I remember it was so very hot, but he was still all smiles.
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I thought about getting Coke to pay me for this shot. Smile We were at Dollywood with some friends. Foster was about 16 months here so it was a real treat for him to drink out of a big cup. It was water by the way. We don’t give our toddlers soda!
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Foster riding the ducks at Dollywood. I think he was about 2 and 1/2 here.
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He started early with loving books.  We’ve had to glue and tape this one back together a few times because all the kids have loved on it.  We still have it on our shelf.
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“This teeth brushing is serious business!” He loved learning to brush his teeth.  He had a racecar toothbrush that he would “drive” on the counter before and after chewing the toothpaste off.
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Here he is after his bath (about 15 months old).  He would just get his lovey, suck his thumb and say “night,night”.  Even though he’s grown so much, he still wants to be walked in to his room and tucked in. 
 
Foster is getting really excited about his birthday.  He seems to be bouncing off the walls, laughing and whistling and singing.  He is full of joy!  We are so blessed to have him in our lives.